Generation to Generation

1 O My people, listen to My instructions.

 Open your ears to what I am saying, 2  for I will speak to you in a parable. I will teach you hidden lessons from our past— 3  stories we have heard and known, stories our ancestors handed down to us. 4 We will not hide these truths from our children; we will tell the next generation about the glorious deeds of the Lord, about His power and His mighty wonders. 5 For He issued His laws to Jacob; He gave His instructions to Israel. He commanded our ancestors to teach them to their children, 6 so the next generation might know them— even the children not yet born— and they in turn will teach their own children. 7 So each generation should set its hope anew on God, not forgetting His glorious miracles and obeying His commands.

Psalm 78:1 - 7

The 37th General Assembly of the Evangelical Presbyterian Church has come and gone, but the impact of this GA will stay with me forever (at least, that is my prayer).  The theme of this years GA was “Generation to Generation.”  The passage from Psalm 78 (above) issues us a challenge.  That challenge is to teaching our children the: Lessons, Stories, Truths, Wonders, and Deeds SO THAT they will in turn teach their children. That is truly Generation to Generation. The question is: How are we doing?  How are we doing individually?  How are we doing as a church?

At GA we heard from several different Generations of pastors in sermons.  Each one bringing a different and fresh perspective to presenting the Gospel of Jesus Christ in today’s culture.  For example, one of our new church planters, who happens to be a Millennial, preached one morning for worship.  He has planted a new church in San Francisco.  The church is named: The Table.  His invitation to San Fran is to come to “The Table.” Their Mission Statement is: “Belonging to Believe.”  This is a town, as many of you know, where anything goes.  The pastor hits the streets to develop relationships (belonging) SO THAT Jesus can begin to infiltrate their lives.  The message never changes, but we may have to change how we reach the lost of this world.  An example, when someone comes to faith at The Table, they are not interested at all in membership.  But if you use the word “Partner With” then they are all over that.  They don’t like words like “Elders” or “Deacons”, but like the word “Leadership.”  “Belonging to Believe” is working in San Francisco!!!

God is so intentional in His command to teach our children, to teach Generation to Generation and this is a must for us folks.  Until He returns, His message for us is to go and tell, go and teach SO THAT this new Generation will “set its hope anew on God, not forgetting His glorious miracles and obeying His commands.”  (Ps. 78:7)

It is God who calls!  God who saves!  This is an Absolute!!!  But it was never more apparent in the messages of this GA that HE intends to use us to share His message of the Gospel and what He has done for us!  How important is this?  Well, how well we do with our children will impact how well they do with their children.  Yes, God’s church will never cease to exist, but we are to never stop proclaiming His praise as long as we live, Generation to Generation!

Psalm 22 is considered a Messianic text telling us of Jesus Christ and His grace and mercy to come.  The last two verses read:

30 Our children will also serve Him. Future generations will hear about the wonders of the Lord. 31 His righteous acts will be told to those not yet born. They will hear about everything He has done.  Psalm 22: 30 - 31

If God saw the importance of including these words in the Psalm about His Son, the Suffering Servant, then how important is it for us to proclaim His message of the Gospel with all we meet.  Generation to Generation!  Let us find a way to keep it rolling!

Blessings, 

Pastor Marty - Pastor, HOPE Church - Raleigh

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"What's In A Name?"

I stopped by the bank where I have an account this week to make change. So I walked up the the teller and say, “I would like to change for these $20 bills for $10s.  I have an account here.  Do you need to see my bank card?”  I was taken back at her response.  She said, “Do you know your name?”  I said, “Well yes, I think I do!”  I really think she meant to say, “Can I have your name?” but she never realized her mistake.  Those of you who know me should realize that my mind began to race with that question, “Do you know your name?”

Yes, I know my name or at least my given name.  I was adopted when I was 2 days old.  I was born to a 13 year old unwed mother in January of 1958.  The only name I’ve ever had was the name given to me by my adoptive parents.  I’ve never known anything else.  I’ve always been Marty Egene Duffell.  Well, that’s not exactly true.  Yes, my name has never changed since I was two days old, but the State of North Carolina changed my middle name on me when I got my drivers license.  They said my middle name was Eugene.  I said, “NOPE!”  It’s Egene.  It took me carrying my birth certificate to the County Courthouse to prove it before they would change it.  

But the more I thought of the teller’s question, the more I thought about “I do know my name.”  I should have told her I’m a child of God.  God told Jeremiah as He called him to be His prophet, “I knew you before you were formed in your mother’s womb.”  The Psalmist says that God formed us and wove us in our mother’s womb.  The Apostle John tells us that because of what Jesus has done for us and our belief in Him, we are “called children of God.”  How cool is that?

“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, And before you were born I consecrated you; I have appointed you a prophet to the nations.”  

Jeremiah 1:5

‘For You formed my inward parts; You wove me in my mother’s womb.’  

Psalm 139:13

“See how great a love the Father has bestowed on us, that we would be called children of God; and such we are.  For this reason the world does not know us, because it did not know Him.  Beloved, now we are children of God, and it has not appeared as yet what we will be. We know that when He appears, we will be like Him, because we will see Him just as He is.  And everyone who has this hope fixed on Him purifies himself, just as He is pure.” 

1 John 3:1 - 3

Yes, I know the teller asked if I had a name.  And yes, I know she meant, Marty Duffell.  But still, that is only my given name.  I am His, His son, adopted into His family.  I am a child of God.  My name is written in the Book of Life.  My name will be called by Him one day to step up and be accounted for.  I’m ready Lord!  Until then you can call me “Pastor Marty”, “Marty”, or “Hey you.”  But this teller, whose name I don’t even know, caused me to be reminded whose I am by name.

How about you?  Thought about “whose” you are lately?  Have you realized that as a believer you are HIS child?  Have you ever thought about that?  He made you, formed you, and He knows you by name!  Does that make any difference?  I think so!

You probably won’t have someone ask you if you have a name.  But someone may dare to ask you whose you are.  And when that question comes, I pray everyone reading this will be able to say, “A Child of God.”

Blessings, 

Pastor Marty Duffell

Pastor - HOPE EPC Raleigh

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"Let Your Light Shine!"

“Let your light shine before men in such a way that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven.” 

Matthew 5:16

As many of you know, one of our HOPE family has been in the hospital for a week waiting for heart surgery.  I sat in the ER waiting room last Tuesday afternoon with he and his family waiting to learn what the next step was in the process of replacing a valve in his heart.  This saga had started on Friday night, with all day Saturday testing, only to find out he had a bad heart valve that needed replacing.

Fast forward eight days later, it is now surgery day!  

What? you may say!  Eight days (really 11 days) in the hospital waiting for heart surgery, why so long?  Well, that is a good question.  His family and I have looked at each other over these eight days and wondered the same thing.  As far as the hospital was concerned, “This is when the doctor can schedule it.”  But after spending some time with him this morning, before they came to take him down to the O.R., I came to a different conclusion.  It really all stems from the verse above.

I told him right before they took him down that I know why he spent a week plus in that room.  It was for relationships.  He was there for the interactions between him and the nurses, nurse assistant, even workers in the hospital.  I witnessed nurse after nurse and assistants come in his room this morning telling him how much they had enjoy being his nurse and that they were praying for him.  One nurse in particular said, “This will forever be your room in my mind.  There are certain rooms here that I name by patients by the impact they left on me.  This room has never been named before, but now it has a name.”  She went on to say, “I prayed for you last night before I went to bed.”  Folks, that is impact.

God knows what He is doing.  These nurses and hospital workers needed a dose of Mr. Bruce Mack and they got it.  And listen, not for his glory, but for God’s glory.  It was truly amazing to see them come in and hug their patient good bye, praying for success in surgery.

God gives all of us who believe an opportunity to let our light shine before men and women, that they may see the Christ in us and that we are about glorifying our Father who is in heaven.  Those opportunities happen all the time.  The question is, do we see them and if so, do we do anything about it?

Let me give you a couple of examples from my own life.  A while back we were in a local restaurant eating and 7 of our 9 kids were with us.  We hold hands around the table when we pray and that does not change even when we are out eating.  So we held hands and one of the kids prayed.  We continued to talk and eat when this couple came up and said, “We just wanted to tell you how your family has impacted us today.  You holding hands and praying, seeing you interact with one another has been amazing.  Your kids are so well behaved.”  I thanked them and thought, yes we are blessed, but thankful we could glorify HIM in some way by our actions.

Another happened last week.  Terry, Emma, and I took Mary (our 15 year old daughter) to work at Chick-fil-a.  As we parked and got out of the truck, I met Mary at the back of the truck, hugged her, gave her a kiss on the cheek and told her I love her.  As she was walking away, I said, you act the way you know you should today.  Kind of normal stuff for me.  But as we were walking into the restaurant a women in the drive through stopped us and said out her window, “I told your daughter she should be thankful she had a dad like you who shows how much he loves you in public.”  May HE be glorified by my actions. 

Folks, it is so important to let your light shine.  No, not that you may be lifted up, but HE may be glorified.  God wants others to be able to see HIM in you, in your actions, in your works, and in your speech.  Stop a minute and think, how has my light been shining this week?  Has anyone been able to see the Christ that lives in me?  If your answer is No then look to make a change!  If the answer is Yes then stop and give God the praise for presenting those opportunities to glorify HIM.

I was blessed today to see that at work in Bruce Mack.  Of course he is only one example.  I see God at work in and through many of my friends, family, and my wonderful church families.  God is truly good.  Let us all let the light of Christ shine through us.  Amen!

Blessings, 

Pastor Marty Duffell

Pastor - HOPE EPC Raleigh

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"A Day to Remember!"

“Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends.”  

John 15:13

I am writing this article on Memorial Day 2017, so please indulge me the privilege to write on the meaning of this day.

Years ago my family had the opportunity to go to Arlington National Cemetery on the Fourth of July.  What a great, but somber experience.  If you have ever been, and I know many of you reading this have, it is something you will never forget.  The pictures I’ve included here are all pictures we witnessed while there.  I remember seeing the caissons with flag draped coffins pass by and was moved to tears.  Approximately 6900 funerals are conducted annually.  Over 400,000 grave sites currently exist.  It is simply a breath taking site and I mean that literally. 

We stood and watched the changing of the guard at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier.  During the ceremony, someone was talking and the soldier in charge stopped and called him out.  Thank you Sir for the reminder of the respect due!  These soldiers weather the rain, wind, storms, even past hurricanes to guard the tomb.  You ought to take the time to read about these soldiers and what they sacrifice to serve in this capacity.  It is amazing.

All that to say, having taken that oath myself, to protect and defend the United States of America, this day has special meaning to me.  I served with men and women who served in Vietnam.  Listening to stories of their friends who lost their life protecting them was moving.  My own father was in Pearl Harbor and on duty when it was bombed on December 7, 1941.  He could not talk about that day without breaking down in tears for the lives of friends that were lost that day.  Sacrifice has meaning.  I served in a time of peace, but there is something that happens when you don the uniform of the United State Military.  Only those who have worn it can truly understand that statement.  Each Memorial Day I have to pause and remember.  Each Memorial Day I am reminded that my freedom came at a cost.  And each Memorial Day I know, except for the Lord’s return, more lives will be lost to protect those freedoms.

The verse above was stated by Jesus Christ, the Savior of the world.  While it applies to anyone who would give their life to SAVE another, Jesus Christ gave His life so that all who would believe might be SAVED.  He loved me so much, He died for me!  If you have problems reflecting on Memorial Day, try reflecting on your own eternal state.  His death gives you life!  Because He conquered death, you can too.  If you BELIEVE!  Now that is love!!!

Blessings my friends,

Pastor Marty Duffell, Pastor HOPE EPC Raleigh

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“The Ascension”

“And after He had said these things, He was lifted up while they were looking on, and a cloud received Him out of their sight.”

Act 1:9

This Thursday, May 25, 2017, is Ascension Day.  In many churches, the Sunday after Ascension Day is celebrated as Ascension Sunday.  The question is why celebrate Christ’s ascension at all?  First, let’s take a quick look at the days before His ascension.

After Jesus’ resurrection He spend 40 days on earth before returning to heaven.  During those 40 days He appeared to His disciples on several occasions and to as many as 500 followers at one time (1st Corinthians 15:6).  He had already opened their minds to understand the Old Testament message about Himself (Luke 24: 44– 48), but there were other lessons they needed to learn before they could set out in their new ministry commissioned by Him.  One was, the reality of His resurrection.  By His appearances, inviting them to touch Him, see Him, eat with Him, hear Him teach them, those that were with Him were assured, the Jesus who died had been resurrected (Acts 1:2-3).  He also discussed with them the coming Kingdom (Acts 1:6).  They wanted to know when His kingdom would be restored.  His response was, not that the kingdom wouldn’t be restored, but it was in God’s time.  Until then, be patient.  Then he reiterated the promise from the Upper Room discourses (John 14 - 15) of the coming of His Spirit, the Holy Spirit to dwell in them.  With this power they would be witnesses to Him to the world (Acts 1:7-8).

Then in verse 9 (as quoted above) Christ ascended into heaven.  Jesus ascension into heaven was an important part of His ministry, for if He had not returned to the Father, He could not have sent the promised gift of the Holy Spirit (John 16: 5– 15).  Also, in heaven today, the Savior is our interceding High Priest, giving us the grace that we need for life and service (Hebrews 4: 14– 16). He is also our Advocate before our Heavenly Father, forgiving us when we confess our sins (1 John 1: 9— 2: 2). The exalted and glorified Head of the church is now working with His people on earth and helping them accomplish His purposes (Mark 16: 19– 20).  So as you can see it is a good thing that He ascended.

There is one more thing I want to mention here though.  As the followers were standing and watching His ascension, two angels and appeared and said, “Men of Galilee, why do you stand looking into the sky?  This Jesus, who has been taken up from you into heaven, will come in just the same way as you have watched Him go into heaven.” (Acts 1:11)

As Jesus appeared and disappeared during those forty days the believers never knew when He might show up. It was excellent preparation for the church because the days were soon coming when He would no longer be on earth to instruct them personally.  Their ministry to a lost world was about to begin.  The Good News of the Gospel of Jesus Christ was about to gain the power needed in just 10 days from then.  He’s ascended and will come again!  When?  No one knows!

We believers today never know when our Lord may return, so our situation is somewhat similar to theirs.  As believers, we have received the power of the indwelling Holy Spirit.  We have received the command to also GO and share the Gospel.  We have been called to be faithful, righteous, disciples of Jesus Christ.  We cannot be complacent.  We cannot say, “Oh, I’ll let someone else do that.”  We are ALL called to be His witnesses until we go to meet Him or He returns for us.

He has ascended!!!  But folks, don’t be like His disciples, standing and gazing into heaven, wondering when (by some people’s testimony, if) He will return.  Claim and live into the power He has given you as a follower of Jesus Christ.

Thursday, May 25, 2017 is Ascension Day and I am thankful, for Christ is doing exactly in heaven what He promised to do for me.  No doubts at all!!!  The question is, am I?  Think about it!

Blessings my friends,

Pastor Marty Duffell, Pastor HOPE EPC Raleigh

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“A Man (Woman) of God”

In my morning devotional reading I am in 2 Kings.  In addition to the Bible reading list that we use at HOPE Church I use a “read the Bible in one year” guide for myself.  In that guide I am in 2 Kings/Luke.  As many of you know, 2 Kings is where Elijah is taken up into heaven and Elisha takes over as the prophet of God.  In chapter 2 before Elijah is taken up in the whirlwind, He asked Elisha what he would want from God and Elisha asked for a double portion of Elijah’s spirit.  Elijah states, that if you see me leave you, your request will be given.  And it was so, for after Elijah had departed, Elisha took up Elijah’s mantle that had fallen to the ground, struck the Jordan River, the waters parted and he walked across on dry land to the men they had left on the other side.  As they saw Elisha coming towards them they said, “The spirit of Elijah rests on Elisha” and they went to him and bowed on the ground before him.

As I have continued to read 2 Kings over the past number of days I’ve noticed that the Holy Scripture has given a title to Elisha.  The first time it is used is in 2 Kings 4 as Elisha deals with the Shunammite woman in Shunem.  She wanted to make a place in their upper chamber for Elisha to live with them when he was in town.  As she is telling her husband her plan she refers to Elisha as “a holy man of God” (4:9).  Now as Elisha’s story begins to unfold this title begins to be used more and more as people reference him.  Verses 4:16, 4:21, 4:22, 4:25, 4:27, 4:40, 4:42, 5:15, 6:9, 6:10,7:2, and there are many more as you read through 2 Kings refer to Elisha as “the man of God.”  They say; “…go get the man of God,” “…here comes the man of God” over and over again.  So much so that I began to look for that title as I read each morning.  Saying: “I wonder what ‘the man of God’ is going to do today?”  

Then something happened where I was taken aback, actually it brought me to my knees spiritually.  I was teaching our adult Sunday School at HOPE and following the class a member came up to me and said, “My husband just said to me ‘Marty is truly a man of God.’”  I wanted to say, “Whoooooo!  Wait just a minute!”  But instead said, “Thank you.”  But later that day as I was reflecting on that comment, I thought I certainly desire to be a man of God.  I want to be a man of God.  This is actually who God, Himself, has called me to be.  How am I really doing?  Am I faithful in “All” things?  Have I gotten lost in my faith in Him, entirely to the point, that I process everything in life through His lens?  Is that me?  Is that who I am?

My answer is that I try to be that person, but I have a long way to go.  My desire is to be a true “man of God” in such a way that my actions and my words are always pleasing to God, my Lord and Savior!  I try hard, but fail at times.  And to be honest with you, I think when I get to heaven and sit down to talk with Elisha about this title of his, he would say that he too was humbled by it and was not always faithful to it.  The great thing is this, God still referred to him as “a man of God.”

So how can you and I become a man/woman of God? Of course, the obvious thing is first you have to give your life to Him, surrender yourself to Him as Lord and Savior.”  But having become a Christian man or woman, how do you become truly a man or woman of God?  I believe it is very simple yet very hard.  Are you ready for it?  Here it is!  You must LISTEN to Him.  You must listen to His Holy Spirit that dwells in you and follow His ways.  When we fail to do that, self, our own ways, our own thoughts begin to take over and then we become a man or a woman of this world, not of God.  You know when you have said or done something wrong.  You know when you have sinned against Him.  His Spirit tells you.  “Respond!  Repent!  Ask Him for forgiveness!  Don’t do it again!”  

He has called you and me to be men and women of God.  We are a “new creation” in Him.  We are no longer of this world, only in the world.  We are His sons and daughters.  And with His adoption we are to grow up in Him as “men and women of God.”

How are you doing?  I’ve had to examine myself, especially when that title was thrown at me.  Let us all become more and more “A Man (Woman) of God.”

Blessings my friends,

Pastor Marty - Pastor of HOPE EPC Raleigh

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“Devoting Yourself to Prayer For the Sake of the Kingdom”

“Devote yourselves to prayer, keeping alert in it with an attitude of thanksgiving; praying at the same time for us as well, that God will open up to us a door for the word, so that we may speak forth the mystery of Christ, for which I have also been imprisoned; that I may make it clear in the way 

I ought to speak.”  

Colossians 4:2-4

What is your response?  How do you react when some else gets the promotion and not you?  What goes through your mind when it seems your neighbor gets all the breaks, new cars in the garage, no money worries, and just seems to be on top of the world and you are struggling?  The normal reaction might be, “Lord, I am trying my best to do the right thing here!  I go to church, give, serve, raising my children in the right way and in a Godly home.  Lord, I don’t get it!”  Many of you have probably had those thoughts.  I know I have.  Here is one of mine when a new church opens their doors around the corner from us and within a few weeks are bursting at the seams.  “Lord, What’s up with this?  I’m trying to be faithful to Your Word, preaching the gospel, teaching the scriptures, ministering to Your people, giving hours and sacrifice to Your kingdom and yet 8 years in, well Lord, we are not bursting at the seams.”

Isn’t that a selfish pray?  One of my mentors and friends has reminded me often, “We are not called to be successful, but called to be faithful.”

The Apostle Paul is in prison and is writing to the Colossian church.  Now it would have been easy for Paul to say, “Lord, I’ve done everything You’ve asked.  Why this fate?”  Paul could have prayed to the church and said, “Hey guys, pray for my release.  I’ve been imprisoned falsely and pray that God gets me out of here.  This is just not right.”

But that was not Paul’s prayer.  Instead, he focuses on the kingdom.  Paul asked them to pray that God opens a door for His Word.  Paul’s focus is for the expanse of the kingdom, not for his personal gain.  It is about God!!!  Oh, I need to hear this.

Remember when we were studying 1st Corinthians that Paul speaks to the division in the church.  Some were siding with Paul, others with Apollos saying he was greater and Paul answers: “What then is Apollos?  And what is Paul?  Servants through whom you believed, even as the LORD gave opportunity to each one.  I planted, Apollos watered, but God was causing the growth.  So then neither the one who plants nor the one who waters is anything, but God who causes the growth.  Now he who plants and he who waters are one; but each will receive his own reward according to his own labor.  For we are God’s fellow workers; you are God’s field, God’s building.”  1st Corinthians 3:5-9

I read this and hear Paul say, “I’m nothing!”  But God on the other hand is everything!!!  He is the one that causes the growth.  Be faithful in all circumstances!  Point to Him in all cases!  Be thankful and give Him praise, even when the chains seem to bind you.  But Marty, come on!  You know that is hard!  That is not human nature.  Oh, you are absolutely right, it’s not a part of our fallen nature.  But folks, by Him, by Christ, we have been transformed into a new creation.  We are to die to self, and rise in Him.  By the transformation of your heart, you become new in Him.  You see, it is only by His power and His might that you can do this, not of yourself.

So let me go back to Paul’s first phrase, “Devote yourselves to prayer…”  You see, unless you are devoted to prayer, you will try to rely on yourself.  Unless you have a thankful heart, even in your current circumstances, you will only see the valley.  But when we fall to our knees asking God to open opportunities for us, not to succeed or stand above everyone else, but to further His kingdom, God honors that.

It’s not easy, I know!  I have to remind myself daily.  But I continue to pray for God to open doors for me to speak the mystery of Christ.  I continue to ask Him to allow me to be an example of faithfulness.  And quite honestly, there are times I continue to fail, only to say, “Why Lord?”  But the more I fall on my knees, the more I make this walk with Christ about Him, the more I feel His power, His strength, His might and man does that feel good!!!  Because I believe that there is nothing more powerful and faithful than my Father in Heaven.  And I know that nothing will separate me from the love that is in Christ Jesus my Lord.  And I know His Holy Spirit has hold of me.  With that, what can the world, Satan, or anyone else do to me?  

So I am committed to devote myself to prayer for the Kingdom!!!  How about you?

Blessings my friends,

Pastor Marty - Pastor of HOPE EPC Raleigh

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