Wednesday, December 2, 2015

Lessons From Children

As I watch my little girl grow and play with Emma, Benjamin, Mary, Nathan, Dhuart, Christian, Charlotte, Caroline, Josiah, and Ezekiel – ‘the Entourage’ - I can’t help but pause and picture how Jesus would interact with each of them. There’s always a picture in my mind – many of you may have one similar to it in your minds. It’s a picture of Jesus surrounded by little children. He is smiling. The children are speaking to Him, sometimes even showing Him their most valuable possessions. I see heartfelt laughter and pure motives to just play – no hidden agenda, no inhibitions to seek an ideology – just to play until utter exhaustion. There is no indication of awkwardness between Himself and the children; there is no harshness of discipline. There is only innocence, peace, joy, and a fond loving relationship. You don’t get the sense that the children have a desire to be anywhere else, but to be right with Jesus.

How does Jesus do it? How does He hold such love for them? How does he never turn away one child? How does He have time for each one of them? How does He take the time for each one individually? I don’t get the sense that anything they say is insignificant to Jesus. He hears all they say. How does He deal so patiently with them? And we can’t forget this - how would He discipline them in such a way that His only goal is love, repentance, and growth? These questions run through my head. They motivate me to be a better parent, but they are also a constant reminder of how I fail him daily because they serve to let me know where I am and where He is as our Father who loves us more than our earthly parents ever could.

There are a number of verses that give us a clear idea of how Jesus views little children:

“One day some parents brought their children to Jesus so he could touch and bless them. But the disciples scolded the parents for bothering him. When Jesus saw what was happening, he was angry with his disciples. He said to them, “Let the children come to me. Don’t stop them! For the Kingdom of God belongs to those who are like these children. I tell you the truth, anyone who doesn’t receive the Kingdom of God like a child will never enter it.” Then he took the children in his arms and placed his hands on their heads and blessed them.” (Mark 10: 13-16 NLT)

“Beware that you don’t look down on any of these little ones. For I tell you that in heaven their angels are always in the presence of my heavenly Father.” (Matthew 18:10 NLT)

In each of the verses above, Jesus clearly tells us that heaven is made up of ones like these. Why? The answer starts with the character of Jesus. He is love, patience, and tenderness exemplified. These are only a few adjectives that will be used to describe Jesus in this article. One could use a thousand more to describe Him; there are not enough words or paper to contain all that He is.

Little children desire a parent who loves them unconditionally. The next couple of verses articulate it perfectly and no further explanation is needed:

 “If a man has a hundred sheep and one of them wanders away, what will he do? Won’t he leave the ninety-nine others on the hills and go out to search for the one that is lost? And if he finds it, I tell you the truth, he will rejoice over it more than over the ninety- nine that didn’t wander away! In the same way, it is not my heavenly Father’s will that even one of these little ones should perish.” (Matthew 18:12-14 NLT).

THAT IS POWERFUL. A child needs to know that his/her parent would be willing to do whatever it takes for the child to be safe and secure. Patience and tenderness go hand in hand. They have to. Children will get into trouble, and Jesus is aware of that fact. Jesus patiently endures these “mishaps”. Jesus is the master teacher; He seeks to teach and train the children on the proper way to live. He makes it no mystery. His aim is for us to have a right relationship with Him. Again, my words cease to have meaning compared to His.

“I will teach all your children, and they will enjoy great peace.” (Isaiah 54:13 NLT)

“And you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your strength. And you must commit yourselves wholeheartedly to these commands that I am giving you today.
Repeat them again and again to your children. Talk about them when you are at home and when you are on the road, when you are going to bed and when you are getting up.” (Deut 6:5-7 NLT)

“But you must remain faithful to the things you have been taught. You know they are true, for you know you can trust those who taught you. You have been taught the holy Scriptures from childhood, and they have given you the wisdom to receive the salvation that comes by trusting in Christ Jesus.” (2 Tim 3: 14-15 NLT)

“As you endure this divine discipline, remember that God is treating you as his own children. Who ever heard of a child who is never disciplined by its father? If God doesn’t discipline you as he does all of his children, it means that you are illegitimate and are not really his children at all. Since we respected our earthly fathers who disciplined us, shouldn’t we submit even more to the discipline of the Father of our spirits, and live forever? For our earthly fathers disciplined us for a few years, doing the best they knew how. But God’s discipline is always good for us, so that we might share in his holiness. No discipline is enjoyable while it is happening—it’s painful! But afterward there will be a peaceful harvest of right living for those who are trained in this way. (Hebrews 12:7-11 NLT)

Do you see the goal of His patience, His training, and His discipline? The greatest Father of all desires nothing but for His children to grow in His likeness. He wants to spend all of eternity with His children. Do you remember that image of Him in a garden surrounded by His children. He desires nothing more than to bring that image to life. The work has already been done. It is up to us – His children - to make the decision to follow our Father in obedience.

In His Name,
Sherif Mikhael, Elder, HOPE Church - Raleigh

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